I never set out to become a habit expert. Honestly, I just wanted to figure out why some things felt so automatic in my day, while others took serious effort. Over time, through trial, error, and a lot of reflection, I somehow learned about five key behavior triggers that quietly shape how my daily habits…
How self-awareness changed my entire life (and how I build it)
Have you ever felt stuck in a loop—making the same mistakes, feeling frustrated, or wondering why life isn’t moving in the direction you want? That was me not too long ago. I was busy, stressed, and confused, trying to fix things from the outside, but nothing really shifted. Then something changed. I discovered the power…
Is it just worry or anxiety? I can tell you the difference
You’re lying in bed, your mind running circles around tomorrow’s to-do list. Or maybe you’re replaying that one awkward moment in a conversation from three days ago—again. You wonder, Is this normal? Am I just worried… or is this anxiety? It’s a fair question. And you’re not alone in asking it. Most people struggle to…
I fixed mindset at 2AM
It’s 2AM. You’re lying there in the dark, staring at the ceiling, and your mind is spinning. You’re replaying conversations, questioning your life choices, and wondering how you ended up here—again. Everything feels heavier at this hour, doesn’t it? That quiet middle-of-the-night hour can be a strange crossroads between your fears and your potential. It’s…
I got an addiction but later understood the science of craving and it was a game changer
Ever found yourself reaching for your phone without even thinking? Refreshing Instagram. One more scroll. One more reel. Or maybe it’s the late-night sugar fix, that second glass of wine, or the video game you swore you’d quit two hours ago. We’ve all been there. Addiction isn’t just about substances anymore—it’s about patterns. Cravings. Loops…
These hacks helped me stop procrastination and have a better mindset
Everyone procrastinates. Some more than others. And if you’re here, chances are, you’re tired of pushing things off, feeling guilty, and swearing to yourself that “tomorrow will be different.” Spoiler: it won’t—unless you change your mindset. Because procrastination isn’t a time management issue; it’s a mindset issue. So instead of throwing another productivity app at…
Are You Really Kindred Spirits or Just Trauma Bonded?
Kindred spirits or trauma bonded—how do you know which one you’re experiencing? When you meet someone and the connection feels fated, conversations flow effortlessly, and the chemistry is intense, it’s easy to think you’ve found your soul’s match. You finish each other’s sentences, share similar wounds, and it feels like you’ve known them forever. But…
Do Covert Narcissists Know They’re Narcissists?
Let’s get one thing straight: when we think of a narcissist, we often imagine someone who knows they’re manipulative… and doesn’t care. Right? But when it comes to covert narcissists, things get a lot murkier. They don’t brag. They don’t demand attention loudly. They don’t even look like they have a big ego. In fact,…
How to Spot a Covert Narcissist Before They Wreck Your Peace
Let’s be real: spotting a narcissist isn’t always as easy as we wish it were. You’d think they’d announce themselves with loud bragging and a trail of broken egos behind them, right? Wrong.Because the most dangerous ones? They’re quiet.They hide in plain sight.They play the victim.And they make you question your sanity. Welcome to the…
Is There an Abbreviation for Covert Narcissistic Personality Disorder?
The world of mental health terms can feel like alphabet soup. NPD. CPTSD. BPD. ADHD.And now you’ve come across something like Covert Narcissistic Personality Disorder and you’re wondering… is there a shortcut for this too? You’re not alone in asking this. Whether you’re researching for yourself, trying to understand someone close to you, or just…